Friday, November 18, 2011

Sunk the Boat

Well, BYU removed my letter.  If you would still like to read it, I've listed it below.  For some context and background information as to why I sent in the letter, just see my other post, "Rock the Boat."

Hopefully I don't get too much hate mail...


Home-ophobia?

In response to “Modern immorality” and “Ways to raise,” I’d like to offer another perspective on children being raised by homosexual parents. 
I know a homosexual couple who are raising two beautiful children, and let me assure you, the environment those kids are in is far better than many others, even, if I dare say, ones with both a mother and father.
Qualifying the character and ability to raise children simply because someone is gay reeks of the self-righteous syndrome so commonly found in the bubble.  Categorizing situations as “good, better, best” solely based on sexual orientation is ridiculous.
Yes, homosexuality shouldn’t be accepted, but casting judgment and qualifying the home of a gay couple because they don’t live the same moral principles we do is outrageous.  We believe in Christ, but does that mean Buddhist parents are less capable of providing a suitable home?
Additionally, considering the neglect and abuse children often receive in foster care, orphanages, and heterosexual households to be better than the homes of loving, committed homosexuals is nothing short of crazy.
            The Family: a Proclamation to the World also states that parents should rear their children in love and righteousness, provide for their physical and spiritual needs, and teach them to love and serve one another, to name a few.  To think only heterosexual couples are capable of doing this is crazy talk. 
We should not accept homosexuality, but that does not mean we should consider those who do unfit to have a family.

2 comments:

katie beth said...

i'm glad you rocked the boat a little bit. and i fully support the opinions set forth in your letter.

love you kate!

Emily said...

katie, one of my favorite things about you is that you are so opinionated, and it doesn't matter if people agree or not, you don't back down. I don't agree with a homosexual lifestyle. BUT, it's no one's place to condemn or to judge. The church encourages people to show love to those who live a homosexual lifestyle, so I don't understand how such a hateful attitude got started. We may not support their actions, but we can love the people, and recognize the good actions they do. It's imporatnt to remember that everything these people do isn't contaminated by their sexual lifestyle. In my opinion, being a capable, loving parent has more to do with who the person is, than the person's sexual orientation.